Belated piece about Lara Logan

While the sexual assault on Lara Logan has faded from the press' memory as she heals from this event, I personally cannot shake what happened to her. I can't shake it not because she's a beautiful blonde, but because it reminds me, all too well, of the risks that all women face when we do work anywhere in the world for any number of disciplines - not only journalists, but anthropologists, historians, musicologists, doctors, lawyers, Peace Corps workers, and the list goes on! Secondly, we cannot underestimate the extent to which male domination is a powerful factor not only in the lives of women, but also men. And lastly, the way that sexism and male domination plays out "in the field" does not diminish our love of what we do and in that way, sexism and male domination hold no power over any of us who love our work.



I am still writing my dissertation, but before I could write, I had to to go "in the field." Doing research in the field meant two things for me. Not only did I have to copy government files from archives located in Kingston and Spanish Town, Jamaica and London, England, but I also had to collect oral histories and conducted interviews with residents of Jamaica's Accompong Maroon community. I could regale you with so many stories of the bizarre interactions I had with men while doing this work (this is a kind characterization). Any woman who would dare to go, by herself, to do this work is fair game. Without a man by her side to make sure someone else's butt would get kicked, we are fair game, whether or not by choice. When Logan's story broke, I could only think but for the grace of God, so go I. But I also knew that many other women had to endure such indignities to conduct their research. The way that we dress, conduct ourselves, decide who we will speak to, develop relationships with so that we can have allies to turn to is a reflection of the threat that (sexual) violence plays as we simply do our work. I know that I have a silver band I always wear on my left hand, 4th finger to signal that there is potentially a man in my life who will make sure things are taken care of. I also know that I'm slightly safer bringing my young son along with me than if I went by myself. SICK!

This only reminds me of the extent that male domination effects all of our lives. Did I really write "male domination?" I certainly did. The process by which a male asserts themselves over another displaying their "power." The important thing is that such an assertion of power is not only experienced by females, but males as well. Nir Rosen, the journalist who tweeted such inexplicably thoughtless and brutish tweets in the wake of the Lara Logan's assault demonstrated this point thoroughly. Not only did he explicitly state that Logan's assault was just an attempt to take the spotlight from CNN's Anderson Cooper (implying that something real had not happened) and implying that it was even deserved, he also tweeted wouldn't it be funny if the same thing had happened to Cooper. Funny?! Is sexual assault (ok, any assault) ever funny?! Under what circumstances? So why would he say this? It would have been "funny" if Cooper had been punked - raped by another man? What disturbed man would imply this? Not only was it ok for men to assert their domination over a pretty gal who thought she could be a foreign correspondent and become a star for her work, but it would also be ok for the same to happen to a pretty, rich boy as well. And the silence about this point was deafening! For people who go in the field, male or female, it is alright to assert your dominance by raping them and . . . well what will we accomplish, Nir Rosen, when this is done? Male dominance is a critical component of sexism and clearly, it does not discriminate whether its target is male or female.

Finally, for those of you who are determined to make the lives of us who do work in the field as painful as possible, know that we are undeterred. We will continue to publish our stories, teach kids, deliver medical care, and write histories because we love what we do. We will do the best we can to flexibly handle the sexism and male domination that crops up along the way. And to Lara Logan, pull your community together and heal as quickly as you can. Many of us are cheering for you. We need your voice and it cannot go silent in the face of sexual violence! Just sayin' . . .

The Tuscon Fallout

First, let me start by saying, like many others, that the victims of the Tuscon Massacre are in my thoughts and prayers. Some folk started the day doing the ordinary things they do, and it ended on such a terribly tragic note. To all who were injured and to the families of the deceased, your country is with you.



Since Obama has been in office, there have been a number of discussions about why certain events should not be perceived as racist, sexist, etc. Specifically, I'm thinking about the discussions about the Tea Party and their motivations and supporters as a prime example. I think, for the target group of any oppression, the oppressive society spends A LOT of time trying to convince you that the oppression isn't happening, no matter what the outward visible signals are. So the general explanations, lately, go something like this: the people carrying the signs with Obama looking like an African chief at health care rallies were just carried by a few wackos who do not characterize who is part of the Tea Party. Ron Paul is just a pure libertarian - it wasn't racist that he decried Civil Rights legislation. After all, it's bad economics to discriminate. So it's not racism. Fundamentally, what these explanations try to do is convince you that you're not seeing what you think you're seeing so the oppression isn't real. There's nothing to complain about, accept our democratic society the way it is. Do not challenge racism because it isn't there to challenge. The same goes for sexism, gay oppression (remember the youth that killed themselves because of gay oppression? Yep, I think that's connected and don't forget the hubbub about Don't Ask, Don't Tell) and, most relevant to this discussion about Tuscon, Jewish oppression.

So after the massacre on Saturday, the discussion became "don't make this a political matter. It was just one crazy guy and this has nothing to do with the surrounding politics." And I tried to buy that. Really. And then I saw the headline of the HuffingtonPost.com that started with assassinations are inherently political acts. After all, Loughner tried to kill a POLITICAL figure, a member of Congress. I got to thinking that crazy people do have politics. And NO, this massacre is not inseparable from the political world we inhabit. To deny the oppression (the anti-female, anti-Jewish nature of this act) requires us to dismiss Loughner as just crazy and to sever this act completely from the world we live in.

I'm sorry. It looks like a duck, it walks like a duck, and it talks like a duck - this was a political, anti-Jewish, anti-female act and I'm going to STOP pretending that the nonsense we have heard over the last two years has nothing to do with it. We have been so numbed by this anti-Black, anti-immigrant fervor that we cannot even see the ugly stuff being targeted at Jews and women. When Jews get targeted, I get particularly nervous because it starts to close the door to who is safe in this society ("And soon there was only me"). We are all being targeted by ugly oppressions in one way or another and we all have to have the guts to take a stand against it. It will not do to rail against Obama and call him racist anymore. It will not do to keep insisting that we build our fences to 'protect our borders'. It will not do to block the building of mosques. It will not do to harass kids and adults who are gender non-conforming and taunt them with anti-gay remarks. And it will not do to shoot Jewish members of Congress. Stop the madness.

Which brings us to Sarah Palin's most unfortunate comment today about "blood libel." Is her particular corner of America so numb, indifferent, or uncaring that she could do no better? Is she so isolated that she can't tell the impact of her words? How could she say this when a Jewish woman is fighting for her life in a hospital room in Tuscon. This is no longer who is politically for or against you. We are all Americans, like us or not and even if we weren't all Americans, as human beings we all deserve incredible respect, love and connection.

I'm not that interested in who's a racist or who is not. I only lay this out because I think we have to move beyond looking solely at people's intent and look at the impact of their actions. The IMPACT of all of this for two years now is anti-Black, anti-Jewish, anti-woman, anti-gay, anti-poor, and frankly, anti-American. It is creating a toxic environment for all Americans. We can't afford this anymore! Just sayin'.

The Gulf, Other Environmental Disasters, and "Big Government"

The oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico has been heartbreaking at best. I, an avid news junkie, have had a hard time watching this story unfold. The combination of this country's ravenous desire for oil, outright greed, and lack of consideration for ecosystems is enough to make one both figuratively and literally sick (the people working to clean up the coasts are becoming ill, as if this wasn't bad enough!). I am also rooting for President Obama as the guy in charge of all of this, but he must do more.

First, I must say that President Obama needs to walk and chew gum. What do I mean? So much of what we hear about is how they are going to "plug the hole." This is critical
because we cannot continue having thousands of gallons of oil flowing into the Gulf of Mexico, particularly as we are in hurricane season. However, we also must aggressively try to stop having the oil come on shore and start immediately cleaning up any spaces where oil has come ashore. There are marshes where there is no sign of life - Anderson Cooper reported that there were not even BUGS in the air.
This is frightening and much more resource must be devoted to keeping the oil from coming to shore and cleaning up the areas where oil has come ashore. BP must hire all the hands necessary and aggressively clean up. No penny pinching. No watching the profit. They don't deserve profit. They deserve to make right with the residents of Southern Louisiana, Mississippi, and other Gulf states.

I actually agree with many critics that the government needs to set up a command center. This would coordinate the activities between government agencies and between private industry and the government. All orders about how to proceed would be issued from here. If for no other reason, the optics would finally look like the government was in charge.

Second, I can only say we reap what we sow. What do I mean? Here is my longer view - ever since Ronald Reagan's administration, Americans have complained about too many taxes and too large a government. The Tea Party is the most recent incarnation of this mantra, but there are implications for this. Cut taxes, that means there is not enough income for the services that government provides. In the last five years, how many problems has this country faced? Spinach and peppers that were contaminated with salmonella (yeah, we dramatically cut funding for the FDA), drugs that killed Americans (see the same agency), the levees in New Orleans were not properly built and the marsh land that historically surrounded New Orleans now held housing and there was no natural or human-created barrier for Katrina. Never mind the two mine accidents that have happened where miners lost their lives. All of this has serious implications for our environment.

What's my point . . . when we shrink the size of government and refuse to collect taxes to fund it, it handicaps the government's ability to respond to problems. The government does not have enough labs to test water samples. The government does not have experts to think through solving this problem. The government does not have enough people hired to clean up the disaster. As a result, it is entirely too dependent on industry to handle this. Hell, things were so bad for government workers that they were sleeping with and receiving gifts from oil industry executives. This is what happens when we have lower taxes and smaller government.



The only disaster I haven't mentioned was the financial meltdown. However, all of these events might have been prevented with robust government that was properly staffed and kept independent. The Tea Partiers' noise must stop. Given all of the challenges in this country, this is not the time for cutting back government. It is a time for shared sacrifice. I would be down for tax increases that allowed government to do this important work of regulating industry and keeping us safe and secure (as well as educating our kids!). Capitalism needs oversight - unfortunately greed has really undermined any ability for me to trust any industry. I said it before and I'll say it again, we are reaping what we are sowing. Just sayin'.

Armageddon and Health Care

Dear John (Boehner):

I never thought I would be writing one of these letters, but here I go. I was raised as a card carrying Evangelical Protestant and took the concern you had about the health care bill causing Armageddon very seriously. Perhaps too seriously for many . . . I decided to watch for Armageddon for 30 days because of your statement. You can check out the history of this @michelledionne on Twitter if you would like, dear. A man of your stature should know about these things, right?

I have to say I was sorely disappointed. Brilliant day after brilliant day passed. I still had health care. I heard nothing from anyone who didn't have health care. My friends still had health care. My mother still has Medicare (yep, she's retired). There were no jack booted thugs in the streets of New York City (are we too socialist?). No volcano ash. No six headed serpent. No rapture. No nothing as predicted by the Biblical Book of Revelations.

Honey, what went so wrong? How could I have soured on you so? How could you have broken your word? Could this have been merely political flourish?

I take away three lessons from this and I hope you take away the same. Here are my recommendations for the future as I stop taking what you say as one of the senior Republicans so seriously:

1. Don't organize political fights on the basis of painful emotion (anger counts). Now, I'm not a big fan of Ronnie, but Reagan was really on to something with his "new morning in America" (unfortunately, it wasn't so new for me). That hopey changey stuff that Obama campaigned on worked because people want something to believe in, not continual kvetching (excuse my mixed religious/cultural terminology). Not doing something because it would cause the end of the world, while exciting for Tea Party participants, does not exactly, well, light our fires.

2. Sometimes you have to lead public opinion as opposed to following it. Really did you want to allow health insurance companies to deny anyone coverage? I'm sure if we took a poll on this schnookums that the American public would overwhelmingly support provisions like this. Do you really think insurance companies should be able to place caps on care over the course of your lifetime? I know, no matter your ideological leanings, that you couldn't politically vote for that! But you know what, the rest of us "socialists" really didn't do a good job getting that part of the message out. But you should want to bring your constituents around to these positions and that couldn't be hard work!

3. Don't promise things above your pay grade like Armageddon, or alternatively, make sure that your critiques are actually based in fact. Really, isn't God (as I learned it) responsible for deciding when Armageddon should come? Are there really death panels in this bill (I haven't heard of grandparents being killed by whoever since the bill passed!). If you stick with real facts (less government regulation, more market doing it's thing (although I don't agree with this)), you might have more mojo next time.

And sweetheart, next time is already here . . . it's the financial reform bill. I would keep Armageddon out of it. Really. Just sayin'.

Our futures will now be delinked. I don't know what else to say. I can only wish you the best.

Hoping for the best,

Michelle

The News Coverage of Disasters Concerning People of African Heritage

Allow me this tongue in cheek and very cynical summary of how Hurricane Katrina and Haiti have been covered by the press (except for Michel Martin of NPR's Tell me More . . . but I'll say more about that later):



1. What the disaster is - this always requires a panicked voice conveying the urgency of the matter with language and physical carriage as well. A 7.0 magnitude earth quake just hit Port-au-Prince, Haiti and the city has just been devastated. We don't have a death count right now, but it could be in the hundreds of thousands!

2. Who is involved - To quote Wolf Blitzer of CNN: "They are very poor and very Black."

3. More panic - We have to help. Enter Great White Hope from stage right, the face of wealthy Western nations who will fix the problem, ease their guilt, and burnish their antiracist credentials.



4. Now that signs of life start to appear, the natives start looting - Enter Crazy Black People from stage left. Sane people would never loot when they were hungry! (sarcasm on my part). This is also the point where Pat Robertson always has to blame the natives for their predicament because they angered God (this applies to White people as well - or those who are nothing like him, i.e. Godlike).



5. How to proceed from here - A number of experts on place-of-the-moment from the West (read Great White Hope) appearing on evening news shows to discuss how to fix the problem. Every once in a while we can allow an expert from the place-of-the-moment, but we certainly can't get carried away . . . what do they know anyway and they moved!

6. A series of stories appear discussing the level of corruption in the place-of-the-moment's government (another version of the Crazy Black People narrative).



7. Disaster fades from the press' imagination (except for Anderson Cooper's - not a criticism of Cooper). Exit rear.

Allow me to take my tongue out of my cheek and really say that the challenge the press faces with covering these stories is that they are solely focused in the here and now because, well, news is new, and history is, well, old, and cannot be put into a nice neat soundbite about the present. However, this leads to highly decontextualized coverage that fails to grapple with the long-term structural challenges in these places that compounded the natural disasters long before the disasters occurred.



What does this mean? Michel Martin of NPR, an exception in her coverage of the earthquake, did a lovely segment on her show discussing Pat Robertson's comment. It inserted the history of Haiti. It makes you wonder if most of the press realizes that people of African heritage have histories, unique histories of their own, that very much color how things look in the present. She actually discussed the 1789 Haitian Revolution! Soooo, Haitians did not make a pact with the devil (we all realized that this was absurd). Why was this the case? Because African-heritage people revolted against the institution of slavery. Yes, Haitians were enslaved and got rid not only of that institution, but also broke their colonial shackles, soon after the American Revolution. While the U.S. received diplomatic recognition and economic trading opportunities throughout the Atlantic World while the British nursed their sores, the Haitians were shunned diplomatically and economically and the French (under Bonaparte, his first defeat before Waterloo) demanded repayment for their lost property (slaves). So, a nation that had nothing now had a debt. Wow . . . that might impact how government forms and how a nation builds itself, right? But this is old. Not news.



Haiti isn't my historical specialty. Neither, frankly, is the U.S. in general or New Orleans in particular. But a little bit of old information can shift the weird tinge of the coverage about these events greatly. Just sayin'.

Child Molestation and the Catholic Church

Let me come out first: I am a card carrying, church going Catholic. I sing in my church's choir, my son goes to the children's liturgy readings. I joined the church after the first U.S. wave of accusations about child sexual abuse came to light and the church had to grapple with that. I entered into this institution with my eyes wide open. And now another wave of accusations about child sexual abuse is coursing through the church in Wisconsin, USA, Ireland, and in Germany under the current Pontiff's watch no less.



Like anyone else, I am sickened that a priest would use his position of authority and power to force young people to have sex with them. For me, this issue is not about chastity. It is about how young people are taken advantage of when they are with a person of power and how they cannot protect themselves and their will is overcome by someone simply because they are a child. It is about the underbelly of how young people are consistently and systematically mistreated because they are young people.

The sexual abuse scandal is also about other forms of oppression too - the oppression of gay people in our societies and sexism (you knew I would have to discuss sexism, didn't you?). Let's start with gay oppression. The response of the Vatican to these scandals was to screen people interested in becoming priests for whether they are gay and make sure that they did not serve in the priesthood. I think, for many, the horror of gay sex in the midst of child abuse was more than they could stand. However, isn't gay sex the red herring? Ultimately, what the Vatican's response suggests is that gay people are perverts who would rather, dare I say prefer, to sleep with young people. And no other myth could be further from the truth. The problem isn't gay people, but people who take undue advantage of children. Some heterosexual men do the same thing, namely take undue advantage of young females.

Which brings me to the issue of sexism and child sexual abuse. Every once in a while, amongst the reports of adults who had been molested at the hands of priests, a woman discusses her abuse. Never is much attention paid to it, it just becomes another narrative, but understand that what is more important are the boys, now men, who were targeted by priests. This is unfortunate because it suggests that it would be less traumatic for girls to be the victims of sexual predation from grown men, particularly men with this level of authority.

One component of sexism is that the experiences of girls and women are trivialized and so our experiences do not matter in the scheme of larger narratives. Hence, the abuse that many endured as young girls and some women is not significant. However, more troubling is the assumption, under sexism, that girls and women are supposed to be the target of men's sexual predilections, no matter their age. Girls, and then women, live with the assumption that they will be the targets of men in a sexual manner for their entire lives. Boys are not socialized with the same presumption. Boys, and then men, are not supposed to be the targeted, but the ones who target. Here lies the revulsion about priests who abuse boys. It is that these priests violate the norms of sexism. Hence, the issue of all young people who have been targeted by sexual abuse initiated by priests is overlooked.

The societies in which the Catholic Church is ensconced must check their revulsions to gay sex if real progress is going to be made against priests molesting children. Sexist assumptions that any child, particularly females, are supposed to put up with men's sexual needs in brutal ways must be dismantled. Sexism, as an organizing construct for any society must be dismantled. Otherwise, at some point, what is good for the goose becomes good for the gander. If girls are to be targeted for sex abuse as a norm, at some point, that norm also ends up being a norm for boys. Both boys and girls have their lives significantly altered in a myriad of ways when adults cannot resist using them as sexual playthings. The Church must stand against all sorts sexism and molestation and make sure their incoming priests are able to stay away from young children in manners that are sexually compromising - perhaps the real check priests should endure is an examination of their willingness to uphold sexism. Dismantling sexism in the Catholic Church would have real large repercussions; however, if doing so would protect young people, wouldn't it be worth it?

There is a lesson for other faiths as well - the Catholic Church gets caught in this because it is the only religious organization that has such a prolific and central bureaucracy and governance structure. Its record keeping is vast and spans many centuries. Perhaps this is the only reason why other faiths have not been ensnared with issues concerning child sexual abuse (except for extremist Mormons). I know I have seen, let me say, odd behaviors in a Protestant church. I know there must be tales of girls and boys molested in other faiths. It will not do to suggest that Catholic priests have a lock on perversion. This also functions as a red herring for the real issue - how to we as a society make sure that young people are safe in front of all adults they come in contact with. Making sure sexism is not an organizing structure in societies would keep all young people safe. Just sayin'.

The Spurnned Wife

First, read this piece published by Time Magazine: http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1947305,00.html

There are two things I want to say about the spurned political/sports/whomever wife . . . way to go Jenny and where is the word SEXISM in all of this?

I whole heartedly agree with Time's portrayal of Jenny Sanford.

She has been the face of eloquence and poise during such an emotionally bruising point in her life. She has been able to be public without too much detail, and think well about not only her children, but her philandering Christian husband. Bravo.

However, aside from taking on infidelity with poise, I think the media coverage of any couple's infidelity completely misses a discussion about sexism and how far we have to go. For example, let's figure out to be a Tiger . . .

Apparently, you go to the gym, train, go to the golf course, train, travel to tournament, let off some steam (if you know what I mean), return to wife and children, repeat. However, what is missed in this scenario is that there is someone laboring, unpaid in our philanderers' absence. There tends to be a woman who is raising the children and keeping track of what is going on in the household to make sure that he can govern or play sports (or work in a law firm, work in a hospital, build buildings, teach kids, and on it goes). The "public" spouse need not bother their pretty little heads with what preoccupies the rest of us for most of the day - who will pick up Junior from school; Junior needs to eat dinner by 5 to make sure he's not a raving maniac . . . what should I cook that he and hubby like; oh dear, Schnookums is bringing over a pal from the office and the housekeeper isn't here today . . . I have to clean; better get Junior to bed so he is ready to learn in the morning; is the homework done; I hope he doesn't feel like making love, I'm exhausted! You get the point.

Bottom line: the philanderers are taking advantage of someone else's time and hard work to enjoy their lives to the max. Here is the sexism - because they are men, they are entitled to their wives' labor. Of course there's the emotional betrayal . . . after all, they swore in front of God,the State, family, and friends that they would be true to their spouses forever. However, these women often hold another job or have given up careers; contributions to their IRAs, pensions, social security funds; their own wealth; and now their emotional security after working their asses off for these men. How much would it cost for them to replace this lost labor? Perhaps this is what Tiger is dealing with this week in addition to his wife's wrath.

It is this entitlement that burns me (I suspect these wives as well). Women don't get socialized to expect this level of entitlement . . . indeed, we don't expect to demand anything in return for the labor we put into our relationships. Ultimately, perhaps THIS is what these men have to apologize for; however, shifting the assumption of entitlement is harder work . . . work they better start doing. And that's why I admire Jenny Sanford - she effectively told her husband he is not entitled to anything of hers anymore. And, in spite of the fact that I suspect she wouldn't identify as feminist, that is the feminist morality tale.